Would you keep your eyes closed when instead having them open will help you to navigate? It may hurt to open them. But, you would be worse served to keep them closed! Do you shut your ears to an important piece of information simply because it may touch your sensitivities? To strengthen your position, you need to listen! There is something you wish to avoid, don’t want to know or even wish to take a look at. But it would be really helpful for you to do so! You now need to take a more mature approach to your situation. It may require self-reflection and facing facts. But the path ahead will become easier once you do!