You are trying to get the balance right. So, the only way you know to proceed is to give things a try. Every time, it feels like the moment is right and the solution is ample. And each time, you find things do not go as planned. But this need be no bad thing unless you choose to see it as such. Each step is a learning curve. But it would be helpful for you to allow matters to develop further and to give time for momentum to roll in your direction before initiating action. Once it does, then you will be ready! Don’t force the matter!
Tithi: Shukla Ekadasi