You are aware of what you now need to do in order to turn the tables. You not only have the capacity to now see that with great clarity, but also the revolutionary spirit with which to take the necessary steps. It will take a lot of hard work, for certain. And you will likely feel as if you just have to put your pain and difficulties aside in order to get the job done. Please do be cautious though. Such approaches are known to lead to acting without awareness. Keep your eyes open and your heart strong.